I've been thinking about how I fall into these traps of wanting this or that, convincing myself I "need" that this or the other thing. Convincing myself that I need a new coat or boots or that Otto needs this or that toy, that the dog needs such and such obedience class. And you know what? It's not true. (Well, maybe that last one might be true.)
The point is, I have everything I need to be happy. I, no...WE are already perfect.
And in that spirit, a list of my favorite SIMPLE things right now. Things that I am grateful for, things that brighten my day, things that keep me centered. "Things" that can't be bought.
1. My kid's laugh. Especially if its a result of something I did. I love it. That sound is like crack.
|Also, his chubby cheeks don't go amiss.|
2. A dark, clean house on a winter's evening with lit candles and a steaming hot cup of tea. Ok, well I guess technically those things can be bought, but what I really mean is the delicious sort of homebody tendency I feel after day light savings time ends and the darkness descends so early. I just kind of embrace it and cocoon up in my little house with my little family, a good book, and some chamomile. My interpretation of AskMoxie's Candletime.
The Danes have a verb for this sort of thing, "at hygge sig" which we don't really have an equivalent for in English. The closest translation would be "to cozy oneself." Too cute.
3. A long, sweaty run in the cold. I know this is weird but there's something about running in cold weather that makes it even more satisfying. I pretend I'm in Rocky IV, you know where he's training in Russia and running in the snow? Yeah. I come home feeling even more badass than usual, high on endorphins. EYE OF THE TIGER.
4. And finally, a hot bath on a cold night. Preferably with a good book and glass of wine or bottle of hard cider. Yes?
What are your favorite, simple pleasures?